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Humans... The only beings that use articulate means of expressing themselves, but also censoring themselves.

We use different means of communicating with each other, either by spoken words, written words, sign language or body language. We use languages to express ourselves and transmit information and so on and so forth, I think you might know well what languages are used for. But we're also the only creatures to express, define and understand an infinity of things, essences, ideas, feelings and so on. So why censor any of it? Isn't the beauty of humanity to express ourselves in the words we use? Why is it that people think that a certain more vulgar way of expressing, and explaining things is crude and childish? I think that limiting the use of languages in any way is nothing but harmful and it let's language to be used as a tool for carefully crafted manipulation and masking of the truth. Even though the same limitations do backfire when it's used by public speaker…

Chapter 8.5: Explaining Rationality

There are a few things that might be interpreted wrong or seem to enter a conflict and this post is here to help explain it all.
1. Feelings and rationality:
When talking about rationality many do not consider feelings to be part of rational. Even though we should not, and here's the reason why. Feelings are part of our rationality, it helps us define ourselves as humans, and it shows our needs. From feeling hungry, sad, happy, they all have a base in rationality, as crazy as it may seem. We're having feelings for a reason, something bothered us, something goes against what we are or there was something we achieved which made us happy. Those things are based in rationality, since they are actually influenced by reason, action and thought. So when I said in one of the rules "expressing thoughts and feelings clearly, directly and in a polite or neutral manner", I this is what I meant. Rather then detaching yourself from the feelings, you should take control of them, u…

Chapter Eight: Rationality

Rationality is the biggest fear of a ignorant person.

While rationality and the definition of it is highly disputed between psychologists, sociologists and philosophers to this day. Rationality is known to be the use of fact, reasoning, proof and control over ones self emotions. This rationality can help us achieve a goal faster and more efficient, the same goes for making hard choices. We are not talking about what rationality in terms of economics, politics, biology or mathematics.  Many debate that humans can't be rational and I quite agree, because we can't really detach ourselves from our emotions, instincts and will to self gain. With rationality using knowledge and information and detachment, it is easy to see why people are irrational. And many believe that the only ones that can be truly rational are computers, and objects for that matter. Often when you tell to someone "Be a rational human being" it's a insult.

One of the problems with us being rational…

To the black coated red

I feel like a dumb-ass, but I don't know how to reach you otherwise or how to make you realize it. I am trapped in between the walls you created. I am simply stuck, and creepily as this might seem, you left me to death when I wonder towards the black coated red you used on me, even though unwillingly. I don't know why yours worked when nothing else did before on me like that. And I write to you again from the corner of the black coated red where some dark escapes to bring some light, even though it might never reach you as I want to.

The more I stay here and think about it, the more I don't want to leave, the more I try to leave and find an exit to all this, the pain only increases in intensity, yet I enjoy it. It works my mind in a weird way and the conflict excites me, just as the improbability drives me. The odds of death and misery to those of disappointment only for a piece of happiness are thrilling. Just the thought of the forbidden fruit that might be hidden either…

Why God(s) must die

By fear or hope humanity lives to live beyond through gods and heavens.
Humanity always lived and held believe in one or more gods. Either because they feared what they didn't understand or for the hope of after life. The belief that in the sky there's a supreme god that can explain everything that we don't understand and we don't have control over everything gives us the illusion that we can leave it to god to make the choices for us and we wont be responsible for what is happening and we don't need to get involved and take charge. On the other side is the weirdly combined elements of fear and hope of a heaven after death. We only have fear of god so that it won't punish us here on earth or in after life by sending us to heaven. And we hope that if we live a righteous life we get in heaven and see all those dear to us that have past on. All these things give us men and women the power to go on with our lives with hope and power through though times with the be…

The Boy That Cried

A tear can be more then enough...

I was told since I can remember that family is supposed to be love, support, trust and happiness. And a home should be a place where there are no mistakes and there's always forgiveness and a warm meal that comes along with the embrace of feeling safety at any time. I believed in this idea and I still do, since a family should be all that and more, even if families differ and have their different religious beliefs or traditions, no matter how broken it is a family and a home should be the same thing for everyone. I might be naive and one of the biggest fools you're reading about. But we all wish that what I believe would be true for each and every case, even though we all know it's impossible and it's most likely just a lie we use to make ourselves feel better. As I was growing up I didn't understand what was happening around me or why and I couldn't care less since my promise was being kept. But as time passed cracks started t…

American Sniper and the shitheads


It's time for me to do this. I just can't shut up about this anymore. So if do or do not know there is that little movie called American Sniper. This little movie is nominated for a handful of Oscars, but everyone fucking started saying that this movie is propaganda for the US Military and the crimes they committed to be forgiven or shown as acts of bravery and spread hate against the Muslims. Which is fucking outrageous and down right retarded.

These motherfuckers are all retarded. No doubt these fuckers should not have kids. But this wasn't what the movie wanted to show at all. And if you wanted to do this after you got out of the movie you are retarded no doubt. At the other end like I said is those that think the movie does this on purpose, they are equally retarded. Why? Well because this movie did nothing to suggest that any of the things people are saying and are getting offended about. Why? Let's start with the fact that this movie begins with t…

My Loneliness 2

You see I was 20 years old. And I was out at a concert My friends and I loved concerts a lot, we loved dancing and having fun, especially if there were lots of people with the same mentality around us. We went to have fun, dance, meet interesting people, but never went out to get laid or find ourselves girlfriends. As the concert was moving along we started creating a flash mob with people around us, we usually did at concerts and festivals. So in midst of jumping, singing, talking and dancing with people, boy, girl, if you were there to have fun we danced and talked with you. But it so happens that I found myself in arms with a gorgeous brunette, she was flawless I've never seen someone that perfect in my entire life. Suddenly from dancing with everyone I confined myself and only dance with her, as she danced with me, it felt like some kind of magic. I was starstruck. So I boldly asked for her number and mail so we could talk.

As drunk and happy as I was that night, in the mornin…

My Loneliness

You see there is this type of girl I really like but there is always something about them that hinders me to be with them. So here's the story behind my bad luck or better let's call it what it is. Loneliness.

You see I was 19, I was working late and there was this group of girls of girls in the bar. But only one stood out for me from the entire group. She was interesting, a redhead, with bright brown eyes that sucked me right in. As it was a busy night I could sneak peak at her while working and without being noticed. But of course my turned into starting for a moment and she noticed me watching her as she smiled. From that point on she and her friends came often to the cafe I was working at, so I got to know her tastes in coffee and tea. I always knew what she wanted even before asking for anything. Once she came with only one friend and as that day was slower then usual she invited me to sit with them for a chat. So we got to know each other and laugh and talk about many th…